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Tom Sizemore’s Memoir “By Some Miracle I Made It Out of There” nominated for a EOTM Award

By Carla B.

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The memoir is a candid Tell-All detailing affairs With Elizabeth Hurley & Juliette Lewis

 

Actor Tom Sizemore is dishing out the goods on what his life in Hollywood entailed, highlighting it all in a new memoir, By Some Miracle I Made It Out of There.”

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The Detroit native is best known for movies such as Saving Private Ryan, Natural Born Killers and Hawaii Five-O, of which… apparently he has led an charismatic life worthy of chronicling.

From the pages of his autobiography the actor calls himself a “spoiled movie star” and an “arrogant fool. Revealing in the midst of his career achievements that he endured a roller-coaster of success and frustration, and in a sense a plethora of ‘absolute nothing-less.’

Sizemore writes:

“I was a guy who’d come from very little and risen to the top … I’d had the multimillion-dollar house, the Porsche, the restaurant I partially owned with Robert De Niro. And now I had absolutely nothing. I’ve led an interesting life, but I can’t tell you what I’d give to be the guy you didn’t know anything about,” he said.

He also recounts his friendships with Hollywood’s elite such as  Sean Penn and Robert Downey Jr.

The memoir goes on to catalog demons the actor fought while working over two decades in Hollywood,  including a capricious relationship with celebrity madam Heidi Fleiss as well as a 4 month relationship with Juliette Lewis.

The book is written in a plain, sometimes coarse text befitting some of the hard-boiled characters Sizemore brought to life on screen. And the subject matter was at times a little difficult to stomach — sex tapes, copious amounts of drug taking, etc.

But in many ways, it’s a story of redemption — of a man who now is trying to regain a small measure of what he squandered. Notably, as the memoir drops, Sizemore says he’s been free of drugs for three years.

Last week it was announced that the actor’s memoir was nominated for ‘Outstanding Literary Work (Inspiration/True Story) at the 2013 EOTM Awards.

Closing, in my opinion, the sex, drugs, & recovery was delivered with fascinating Hollywood stories and insights into the dark world of all things ‘celebrity.’ Tom Sizemore has masterfully done it all. Although depressing at times,  his memoir delivers some good laughs to lighten the mood….a must read…imo.

The book is available now on Amazon and other online platforms.

Have you read the book? What were your thoughts? Leave in the comments below.

 

 

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Grammy winning Singer Lauryn Hill reportedly facing eviction on top of tax evasion sentencing Monday

By Carla B.

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Hip hop icon Lauryn Hill is reportedly facing an eviction from her New Jersey mansion, which was first reported by  TMZ.  A public record search of Essex County Court unearthed a tenancy case filed against Hill on March 5th by the owners of the home. There’s also a lawsuit pending against both Hill and her landlords by the town of South Orange for allegedly running a business out of a home, which is a violation of town zoning ordinances.

Lauryn Hill performs at the LA Rising concert featuring Rage Against The Machine and Muse. (Robert Gauthier/Los Angeles Times)

On top of this very unfortunate situation the singer is also dealing with tax evasion charges. Last year Hill pleaded guilty to willfully failing to file income tax returns with the IRS. Federal prosecutors contend she didn’t pay taxes on more than $1.5 million earned in 2005, 2006 and 2007 from recording and film royalties. She could potentially face a one-year sentence for each of the three evasion charges.

Her sentencing is scheduled for Monday April 22nd.
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Hill responded to the tax evasion charges via social media back in 2012:

“Over-commercialization and its resulting restrictions and limitations can be very damaging and distorting to the inherent nature of the individual,” Hill wrote. “I did not deliberately abandon my fans, nor did I deliberately abandon any responsibilities, but I did however put my safety, health and freedom and the freedom, safety and health of my family first over all other material concerns! I also embraced my right to resist a system intentionally opposing my right to whole and integral survival.”

 

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Death and Taxes: Wesley Snipes and other Celebs that paid royally – EOTM Media

By Carla B. – Follow us: @eotmpr on Twitter |eotm.media on Facebook


“Why can’t celebrities pay their taxes like the rest of us?”

 

On April 2nd actor/entrepreneur Wesley Snipes was released from a federal prison and transferred to the New York Community Corrections Office where he will be confined to house arrest until July 19th. TMZ was the first to break the story.

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In 2006 Snipes was convicted on three misdemeanor counts of failing to file tax returns in 2008 and began serving his sentence in 2010.

The Vampire Slayer belonged to a group that challenged the government’s right to collect taxes. Prosecutors argued he failed to file returns for at least a decade and owed over 17 million dollars in back taxes.

While some celebrities engage in various attempts to avoid paying taxes, from filing false returns to hiding money overseas, regardless of the method or fame of the individual, the government can force those guilty of tax fraud to pay back taxes and penalties, and serve time in confinement—a costly lesson for an avoidable mistake.

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Other celebrities that paid royally to Uncle Sam

1. Martha Stewart: Stewart was forced to pay $220,000 in back taxes and penalties to the State of New York.

2. Ja Rule: Multi-platinum selling rap artist Ja Rule failed to pay taxes on more than $3 million that he earned between 2004 and 2006 while living in Saddle River, NJ.  He pleaded guilty to three counts of unfiled taxes, admitting he hadn’t filed for five years, according to U.S. Attorney Paul Fishman. The rapper was sentenced to two years in prison. The hip hop star told a federal judge that he had received bad financial advice and had trouble coping with fame.

3. Lauryn Hill: Next up is hip hop icon Lauryn Hill who just happens to reside in the Garden State of New Jersey. In 2012 the grammy-winning singer pleaded guilty in federal court, to three counts of failing to file federal income tax returns. Hill pleaded guilty to failing to file federal returns between 2005 and 2007, despite earning an income of more than $1.8 million. Each count carries a maximum penalty of one year in prison and a $100,000 fine.

4. Willie Nelson: After seizing most of his assets in 1990, the federal government forced Willie to pay over $16 million in back taxes and fines for his involvement with a bogus tax shelter.

5. Nicolas Cage: According to the IRS, in 2009 Cage owed approximately $6 million in back taxes. The actor accused his ex-manager and accountant of making poor investment choices.

6. Marc Anthony: In 2007, the IRS served Anthony with $2.5 million in back tax bills. Then in 2010, he received two additional bills totaling over $3 million for unpaid taxes on real estate. Marc Anthony also blamed management.

7. Heidi Fleiss: Known as “The Hollywood Madam,” Fleiss ran a prostitution ring during the early 1990s. Although she never named names, her business attracted clients who were well-known and well-off. Ultimately, she was arrested in June 1993. Fleiss was convicted of federal tax evasion charges, which carried a seven-year prison sentence.
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8. Pete Rose: Rose made his name with the Cincinnati Reds, first as a player and later as a manager. Despite his many on-field accomplishments the Baseball icon was caught gambling on games, including those played by his own team. He was sentenced to five months in prison and fined $50,000 for tax evasion, according to The Associated Press.

9. Martha Stewart: The savvy business woman accumulated a $220,000 tax debt for not paying taxes on her East Hampton, New York, home, which she claimed she spent very little time at and therefore thought she didn’t need to pay taxes on. She was sentenced to five months in prison and five months of home confinement. Stewart was also fined $30,000.

Death and taxes may be equally inevitable, but Uncle Sam demands the last word.


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Rolling Stone releases list of 50 Greatest Hip-Hop Songs of All Time and No Lauryn Hill….

By Carla B.

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In the top 10…..?

 

When I think of hip hop…I must say its all about the Doo Wop. That type of harmony with musical qualities, stylized rhythmic sounds and a vast amount of vocal parts, providing authentic context. Hip hop is a culture — epitomizing resistance and struggle and can be used as a bridge to learn other things like literary interpretations, history, life, science and is a mnemonic device that can once again be used to  facilitate learning. That’s pretty significant, right?

Well in light of it all, Rolling Stone is celebrating the genre in a big way, featuring a cover honoring some of the hottest rap acts of all time.

Editors of the magazine polled 33 blue-ribbon artists such as; Talib Kweli, MC Lyte, Q-Tip, Nas, Jermaine Dupri, Rick Rubin, Luther Campbell, Busta Rhymes amongst others — all sharing what their favorite hip-hop track was. Record producers, industry professionals and music journalists also chimed in.

Notorious B.I.G., Tupac, Eminem and H.O.V.A aka Jay-Z – make up the top 4, and will grace the front of Rolling Stone commemorating the ‘honor.’

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As to the list… well I for one was surprised that hip hop legends such as Lauryn Hill, Whodini, Gangstarr, Scarface, Special Ed’s I Got it Made, and Digital Underground did NOT make the lists top 10.

Seriously…no Lauryn Hill…in the top 10?

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A quick reminder to Rolling Stone, and let’s just sum it up with “The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill.” The singer, songwriter, actress, producer, mother, etc etc etc, is a 5 time Grammy Award winning artist, including the prized Album of the Year and Best New Artist, for the critically acclaimed 1998 album that launched her solo career following her work with the Fugees.

Miseducation has also been a commercial success, with over seven million sales in the U.S. by the end of 2010. The fan favorite, to this day, is praised for her rich lyrical themes, earning the singer a place among the greatest albums of the 1990s, and potentially the greatest album of all time.

The multifaceted diva jumps from old roots reggae to contemporary R&B, and from soul to hip hop and gospel, and to rhythmically delivered spoken poetry…all of it can be summed up in 2 words, “purely Laurynhillesque.”

The Fugees singer has cemented her unique sound in her fan’s ears and souls for a lifetime.

“Could You Be Loved,” and “Doo Wop (That Thing),” has kept most of us…well….yearning for more groundbreaking and transformative rap music… that reaches our youth.

The verdict?

‘It was the hip hop artists, producers and other industry taste-makers that decided the vote,”….so I digress…a tad bit.

Notably, the list is definitely lacking….Rolling Stone… is dubiously miseducated.. or are we?! In any case, true hip hop enthusiasts want to relate and yearn for artists who don’t shy away from truth.

True hip hop has merit and is built on vocal harmony and yes….doo-wop too. So when these hip-hop pundits talk…do people really listen?

 

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Ahmir “Questlove” Thompson shared his perspective on hip hop with the mag, “I was eight years old when “Rapper’s Delight” made its world premiere on Philadelphia radio. It happened at 8:24 p.m. on a Thursday, after a dinner of porgies, string beans and creamed corn. Me and my sister, Donn, were sneaking a listen of the local soul station while washing dishes­ when an army of percussion and a syncopated Latin piano line came out of my grandma’s JVC clock radio – what appeared to be Chic’s “Good Times.” How was I to know that my world would come crashing down in a matter of 5, 4, 3, 2 ,

I said a hip, hop, the hippy to the hippy/To the hip hip hop, you don’t stop. . . .”

Oh yes — I can def relate too @QuestLove.

“These sounds had incredible power if you grew up with hip-hop: There was the summer I spent trying to match the mix to “The Adventures of Grandmaster Flash on the Wheels of Steel,” note for note, on two Fisher-Price turntables. (My father, unimpressed, told me, “There ain’t a living spinning other people’s music” – little did you know, Dad, little did you know.) There were so many times when a song premiere could stop you in your tracks, then become a subject of discussion for the next four hours: in the high school lunchroom when me and Black Thought heard “Wrath of Kane” for the first time, or my first listen to “Fight the Power” – it sounded like Pharoah Sanders and Rahsaan Roland Kirk had gotten into a knife fight.”

The highest-charting female rapper on the list is Missy Elliott, whose “Get Your Freak On” came in at No. 38.

 

The full list of 50 hip-hop songs will appear in the latest issue of Rolling Stone, which hits stands today, Dec. 7.

 

Check out Rolling Stones list of top 10 songs of all time:

 

1.    “The Message” – Grandmaster Flash and the Furious Five
2.    “Rapper’s Delight” – Sugarhill Gang
3.    “Planet Rock” – Afrika Bambaataa & the Soul Sonic Force
4.    “Sucker M.C.’s” – Run-DMC
5.    “Mind Playing Tricks on Me” – Geto Boys
6.    “Nuthin’ But a ‘G’ Thang” – Dr. Dre feat. Snoop Doggy Dogg
7.    “Fight the Power” – Public Enemy
8.    “Juicy” – Notorious B.I.G.
9.    “Straight Outta Compton” – N.W.A.
10.  “Paid in Full” – Erik B. and Rakim

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What are your thoughts? Are these some of the greatest of all time?! Leave in comments below.

 

A lil Doo Wop for the hip hop heads — Enjoy!

 

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The Presidential election is only weeks away…and it’s getting ugly out there… I mean…really ugly

By Carla B.

And before you think I’m just talking about the political process, the political parties, or the respective candidates, I was actually talking about you…me…us….and them…the people. And by people, I’m especially talking about black folks and how they engage in hatred…(I know that’s a hard word…but it’s the truth) towards the few blacks and other minorities that have not decided who they are voting for and/or the ones that have came out to say…they are NOT voting for Obama…or just plain not voting at all.

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Whatever the case – we all have a voice…a choice? We get to vote however we want…right?

 

Black Voters Catching Heat For Mitt Romney Support

 

It’s okay to disagree – I’m totally fine with your opposing views – at the end of it all…hopefully we can still be Facebook friends and you will continue to follow me on Twitter… ;-)

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Take a step back…marinate on this ….for a second.

Imagine going out to eat and ordering a salad, only to have the waiter tell you that you may not have it, that you must have the soup instead. How would you feel? The choice between soup and salad is a fairly benign one, but it demonstrates a characteristic of human nature: we don’t like to be forced into decisions we’re capable of making for ourselves. We resist compulsion. Even when we face more serious decisions, ones with moral implications, it is important that we choose for ourselves.

Why am I sharing this?

Because I really want you to still respect yourself the morning after the election season.
Because I really want your friends to still respect you, too.

Know what I mean?

What we should be doing is to remain “Independent” with a commitment to collaborate, listen, and engage the political system all while understanding that the political system is not our ultimate Hope or Answer!

It’s important not to trample on other people’s freedoms in pursuit of our own. Even when we feel our way of thinking may be for someone else’s “own good,” it’s important that everyone has the right to their own opinion and beliefs.

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Video of the Week: Christopher Kennedy Lawford on Addictions & The 2012 Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Benefit in New York

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Christopher Kennedy Lawford one on one interview with Carla B. at the EOTM Radio and Media studios in Santa Monica, California, August 25th.


About this episode: Actor, New York Times Best Selling Author & Activist Christopher Lawford Kennedy visits Carla B’s E! Buzz Talk Show to chat about The Dizzy Gillespie/Englewood Fundraiser, his life in public service, the non-profit sector, working for the Joseph P. Kennedy, Jr. Foundation, The Special Olympics, and The Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University and Caron Treatment Centers & more.

Kennedy also holds positions as a Public Policy Consultant for Caron Treatment Centers and a national spokesperson for a Hepatitis C public awareness campaign and was recently appointed to the California Public Health Advisory Committee.

 

 

 

 

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Carla B. Interview with Founder of Ruby Flower Records ‘Dr. Ana Isabel Ordonez’

By Carla B.

Dr. Ana Isabel Ordonez  has had monumental success throughout her career, a member of the Jazz Journalists Association, Dr. Ana  is also a Biologist, writer, jazz editor, independent filmmaker, music/art promoter and producer. Educated in Europe and self- taught Victorian patchwork maker, she has worked on this art since the early 90s and has presented her craft in France and Luxembourg. She is also an accomplished scientist who began training on insect-plant pathology and biological control research at the age of eighteen and has lectured and cooperated in miscellaneous capacities throughout South America, Europe, Africa, East-Europe, Japan, China and New Zealand. Ana Isabel Ordonez is also an Agronomic Engineer with Masters and Doctoral degrees in Genetics, Forestry and Animal Biology. She was awarded by the Colombian Society of Entomology with the national prize, Hernan Alcaraz-Viecco. In 2004 she published a book which enlightens integrated pest management strategies in Luxembourg. She has also published numerous articles on the value of nature.

Dr. Ana Isabel Ordonez is as busy as ever bringing her fantastic, heartfelt initiatives to the forefront nationally and internationally.

Ordonez continues to pour her “heart and soul” into creating new art and sharing with the world art that should be never forgotten, hence her participation with the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial benefit.

With only weeks away from the 2012 Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Benefit, Dr. Ana Isabel Ordonez stopped by for a candid interview to talk about the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Benefit, how she found herself involved with such a wonderful organization, what bringing Christopher Kennedy Lawford aboard meant to her and the similarities she shared with him.

Carla B.: Hello Dr. Ana, so happy to be able to speak with you about all the great things you are doing! As you well know, there is an exciting benefit coming up, the Dizzy Gillespie/Englewood benefit which is dedicated to Jazz Musicians in need. Can you explain why this important?

Dr. Ana Isabel Ordonez: Of course, Carla. Dizzy Gillespie was a major force in the jazz world.  He died in 1993.  One of his wishes was to help fellow jazz musicians that were uninsured – he wanted them to be treated for free at Englewood Hospital and Medical Center.

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The hospital team decided they would honor Dizzy’s last wishes.  Dr. Frank Forte was Dizzy’s oncologist. He and Dr. Bob Litwick created a network of physicians, who bestowed to privately treat the Jazz Foundations’ uninsured musicians for free and provide operations and diagnostic testing and treatment. The Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Fund was born and it’s the first fully free medical treatment partnership of musicians in America. The Dizzy Memorial is a 100% donor-supported fund.  Jazz is the most important American form of art, it’s vital to help musicians in health crisis.

Carla B.: That’s wonderful! Yes, I recently sat down with Dr. Francis Forte, and he shared those tidbits as well. You all are such a Gods gift to these musicians!

I noticed you are also founder of Ruby Flower Records. What types of genres do you work with? Tell us a little bit on how that came into formation.

Dr. Ana: I and trumpeter Herb Robertson founded Ruby Flower Records in 2005. I was at a turning point in my life and wanted to burn my passion for art and jazz so we founded the recording label focusing mainly on avant-garde music. The label yearns to please connoisseurs and purist audiophiles.

Our slogan is simple:  ”Creatively speaking…Where the talents blossom”… we  have produced innovative music while searching for a technical excellence on the releases. The success of an Indie label is never reached nightlong. However, my force of will is strong and I’m a hard worker and I have the certitude that my passion and love for music will drive Ruby well into the future. This is the legacy I will leave behind. I’m exploring other aspects of art like poetry and theater pieces for children but the main objective of the label stills the avant-garde niche.
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 Carla B.: So you are definitely a music lover. Or so it appears…

 Dr. Ana: Absolutely!!  There is no other way to be for me. I’m too direct, sometimes sharp. As I said I’m driven by passion and willpower.  When I love I do with my guts, my heart and a part of my brain. I live and breathe for Art and this music. I’m talking about Avant garde music. It’s a niche, its needs supporters. I have been blessed because I had worked with luminaries and Jazz Masters. I have learned a lot from them. My work with Maestro Cecil Taylor brought a big deal of maturity into my life and also startling revelations about myself, about what and who I am. Herb Robertson is the most inspiring trumpeter I have ever met. He’s so sensitive and complicated! His emotional radar detected fakeness and it guided me for years. This small niche is rich on history and forward tendencies. But I should say that I appreciate all kind of music. There is not bad or good music; there are sounds, spaces, phrases. Music is a universal language that carries peace and love. I happen to spend many hours listening to classic music too. Sometimes I cry…beauty makes me cry… I think it is the joy involved with beauty that moves me. How lucky I am that I can hear! Life has blessed me abundantly. Music can be complex but it’s one of the simplest things you can find and enjoy every day. I’m grateful for this, for being alive, and for having found my place in the universe. In that universe music vibrates on my heart all the time.

Carla B.:  You are excellent at painting pictures. I am sitting here visualizing this very beautiful world of music that you speak of…and I can see and feel it too! I guess that makes me a music lover as well. We are definitely kindred spirits…in this sense. Tell me…what was the first concert you ever attended Jazz?

Dr. Ana:  It was in 90 in Praha. It was just after the fall of the Berlin wall. Praha is a gorgeous city and there is this bridge, the Charles Bridge. Jazz musicians were there playing those wonderful standards. I was dazzled because their music was an expression of a retrieved freedom. I remember to have met this young Czech musician who showed me part of the town and his big band which played swing and bebop, I loved it! This man was so full of hope and joyful. He showed me how beautiful it was to live … following his own inspiration. After that encounter I wanted to know more about this type of music. I think nothing comes to us randomly. Some things are just meant to happen. I count my blessing every day and even if my journey has been hard and bumpy at the edges, I consider myself a blessed woman for having met that man…

When I went back from Praha I wanted to play an instrument. I was ballet dancer during my youth and played guitar but my favorite instrument was trombone so I decided to pick up the trumpet very late. I mean REALLY late. Therefore I’m a terrible trumpet player but I wanted to believe…. I took lessons with many trumpeters including my dear friend and fabulous trumpeter from Luxembourg, Ernie Hammes. We now laugh about that time.  I can play “My funny Valentine” (which is a song with a lot notes!) “Summertime”, “Sonnymoon For Two” …but for sure not now…You know what they say: when you play trumpet…if you don’t play one day, you know it, if you don’t play two days , your friends know it and if you don’t play three days everybody know it. (Ana Chuckles) I have no excuses for my lack of practice well…yes may be one: I totally suck but I do believe and I’m sincere, that’s important. I thought that taking lessons with everybody would help me but trumpet is a very hard instrument and you have to begin early in life…Still it’s never late to test the joy from time to time of playing in pitch a high C.

So, yeah I think my blast with jazz started that spring day in Praha. My ultimate jubilation was seeing Dizzy playing at Banlieu Blues in Paris in 1991.  It was a concert with Miryam Makeba. I remember every song they played. Those two moments marked my passion for live Jazz.

Carla B.: Wow Ana, that was really beautiful. You are probably the most open and honest person I have ever interviewed. It’s as if you are 100% okay with every aspect of you…from the fun and somewhat quirky to the genius in you. I know my readers feel this as much as I do….for that….I am very grateful and humbled to have this opportunity to sit with you.

What do you love the most about experiencing live jazz as a fan?

Dr. Ana: I think I’m more than a fan. I’m engaged to this music. It’s part of me and my life. The experience is celestial like when you lie in bed listening to the rain outside? It’s hard to put words on what I feel and how I love live jazz.  The greatest pleasure in music comes when you hear it.  In many live jazz concerts I found myself giggling like if I were in a bubble bath.  I get butterflies in my stomach every time I listen to live jazz. I could call it love for music and for me that’s unconditional and stronger than time.

Those moments of absolute joy can’t be stolen from me because it doesn’t depend on happenings   as happiness does, but is in that moment.  When I listen to jazz I feel my life is worth living. Jazz goes beyond sounds; it’s also standing up for people’s rights!  It’s taking away someone’s pain. When you attempt a concert you are paying respect to the music. I know I put a smile on someone’s face! I take joy in knowing there are truly honest jazz musicians out there, descent people that I have had the chance to meet. Some of those people share themselves and their love of music with the world. I know I have experienced joy listening to live jazz, a joy deeper than pleasure or happiness.  I have received it as a gift that remains with me.  I think people call that beatitude.

 
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 Carla B.: In your opinion, what is it about Dizzy Gillespie that has left an imprint on music lovers worldwide?

 Dr. Ana: To me Dizzy had a truly Avant garde spirit, he elevated jazz to a called “elitist” music genre.  It was around the 40s when Monk, Miles, Bird, Mingus and Dizzy begin to play “faster”. Bop and Bebop emerged on the musical scene and everlastingly changed the print of jazz music. This revolutionary new form fore-teller the birth of modern jazz.  Bop was radical because the melody became additional; the improvisations were founded encircling harmonies and chords, the big bands where more or less left aside encouraging smaller groups. The music got more complex and may be harder to absorb. The tempos speeded up, and extended soloing became the focal point.  Swing became then an old-fashion kind compared to this articulation coaxer genre. Nonetheless, inaccessibility avoids bop to attain commercial success as swing did.

Dizzy Gillespie is definitely the founding father of modern jazz and a major figure in 20th century American music.  Who doesn’t know his facial expressions, sense of humor, moon cheeks and bent trumpet?  Dizzy initiated an intense, high-speed revolution that becomes an enduring jazz style. Don’t forget that he also embodied Afro-Cuban music into jazz, creating again a new genre.  His career was very long and sustainable. He was brilliant; an inventor, a virtuoso. Dizzy Gillespie tot up all fields of American popular art!

 Carla B.: Considering you are also founder of a production company and label what is your opinion on trends in music this year, with artists like Lady Gaga that seem to have major influence?

 Dr. Ana: This is a very interesting question. On these days every college student has an iPod or MP3 player as a part of their existence. Now everybody is talking about an IPhone 5 with much functionality. For me that’s almost unknown territory. Listen to the radio, there are many number of music genres and styles that many people are able to connect with. I see that popular trends in music are going towards underground/indie music, mainly rock and pop. This seems to be the leading competition for the last few years.

Jazz has become “elitist” music. I spent several years on the road with jazz musicians. I observed the audiences. I rarely saw young people on those concerts. It’s sad because this music has roots on what was the origin of rock and pop.

Indie music has gone great beyond that and has for some reason created a farcical amount of sub-genres that fall under its wispy category. With all those copious sub-genres, almost any artist can label themselves as an indie artist or band. Add to these all the social networking sites and music blogs…artists are now able to fleetly many fans. Thus, in a way, indie, as genuine as it wishes to be, is dropping in mainstream. Some popular artists among young generations are: Lady Gaga, Lana Del Rey, Jay-Z, The Black Keys, Adele….

The lowdown, garnered from music collections and computers speaks of how pop music is edging a golden age.

Carla B.: I definitely agree with you 100% and it is really unfortunate that Jazz music is not as popular with our youth as genres such as pop and rock.

Let’s talk about the upcoming benefit, The Dizzy Gillespie Memorial taking place on October 16th at the historic Cotton Club in New York.You have a couple  fabulous hosts and thanks to you..I had the privilege to interview one in particular, Christopher Kennedy Lawford. A fascinating and humble gentleman that has had his fair share of struggles with addiction. Was this a key factor for you in choosing him to host? You also mentioned before that this benefit really hits home for you. Can you share what you meant by that?

 Dr. Ana: Well…this year fundraiser is very special. Since several years ago I’m following the work of Christopher Kennedy Lawford. First I was amazed for his sincerity and courage for being able to talk about the stigma of addictions, he came from a very well known family and I know by my own experiences that in certain families there are things you just don’t talk about. Then I bought his books. I cried reading it but I laughed too. He has this fabulous sense of humor mixed with a lot grace.  All that reading brought me back to painful memories I have endured in the past dealing with alcoholic/drug addicts artists  and with my own co-dependent demons too.

I came from a family of  alcoholics, workaholics and hysteric characters. My father and my uncle  drank heavily and eventually died because of this disease. They were brilliant as a medical doctor and DDS,  work- functional but the family was and still totally dysfunctional and like in many dysfunctional families some members are in denial. I discovered addictions are a genetic disease when my brother (a brilliant medical doctor and politician) was in a detox for alcohol, drugs and sex addiction at the South Miami Hospital. You know, I was living in the U.K at that moment and my mother called me up saying they need me there. So I went to Miami and spent ten days supporting my brother. The meetings were a revelation to me : all those folks talking about their stories were sending me a mirror. It was so painful…and I told me : “wait a minute, who am I?. Each story is like a part of me. I’m just a co-dependent. When it was my turn to talk I stood and I reckon… I was a co-dependent” . My brother and I got into each other arms and cried together for 30 minutes.  I think that saved my life. That was in 98. I now know this disease can kill, in many ways. That brother I adored so much died in 2001, just few years after his detox in Miami. He got back into politics and power and got killed by the guerrillas. He was 37 years old… After he died, my family really got atomized. The silence and no explanations almost killed my soul. But, you see? Since I was nine years old I knew I have to be away from my family  in an effort to save myself. Now I understand that I cannot save them. I had to deal alone with my own demons. It has been a very hard journey but I did it alone, I did it in my way. I am just beginning to come to terms with being an adult child of addicts, and I understand this is a pattern from my upbringing. I know many jazz musicians alcoholics and drug addicts. Some of them see it as a “therapy”, may be because they’re still alive and functional… but on getting too involved in their lives just re-enforced my co-dependent character.
When I discovered Dr. Forte’s cause I knew that was a way to help those musicians without getting involved in their addictions. By my own experience I know the most difficult part is to talk . I think Christopher Kennedy Lawford is an example of a real phoenix and his story and endeavors are so inspiring that I’m sure his presence, meeting with Dr. Forte at the fundraiser will tremendously benefit the music community. This is an illness, there is not shame or stigma in talking about it, to help each other and if we want to heal, we can!.

Carla B.: Yes Ma’am….that is so true. I want to thank you for being so candid. You are such a beautiful person inside and out and it reverberates when you speak. You are not just a musician and a doctor you are a spiritual healer of sorts….its your God given talent or at least one of them. Thank you so much Dr. Ana for your time — this interview… I’m sure has not just touched my heart….it has the power to touch and heal anyone with a heart of compassion. Cheers to you Ana…cheers to you!

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Carla B. interviews Dizzy Gillespie’s longtime Physician & Founder of the Memorial Fund benefiting Musicians in need, ‘Dr. Francis Forte’

By Carla B.

It is isn’t often that you’re fortunate enough to sit down with a renowned Doctor who attended medical school at Yeshiva University Albert Einstein College of Medicine, graduating in 1964 — with over 48 years experience.Not to mention this fine physician also being an esteemed Jazz Musician, as well as friend and doctor of American jazz trumpeter, bandleader, composer and occasional singer Dizzy Gillespie.

Francis Forte, MD and Dizzy Gillespie met some twenty years ago. It was music and medicine that brought these two extraordinary human beings together and it’s the same combo that still intertwines them in spirit and practice today.

Dr. Forte was kind enough to sit down for an interview with me and share his knowledge, his experience working with Dizzy Gillespie and how the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Fund was born. Let’s get started!

 

Carla B. : Dr. Forte, thank you for your time.  I hear that you are a jazz musician as well, how exciting! Please tell us about your background in music and medicine.

Dr. Forte: Well, Carla, I think I’ve always wanted to be a doctor.  As a little kid, the sound quality had static. I agreed to make the sick people better.  Then, I went into oncology and hematology where the sick people really need to be made better, but often it is not measured in a cure.

When I was 11 years old, I found a ukulele in my grandmother’s attic and taught myself how to play it.  My father suggested that I play the guitar and brought home a $12 Stellar, and guitar players of my vintage will know exactly what I mean.   From there, it was lessons, seminars, bands, all kinds of fun things although I must confess that the guitar did gather a lot of dust while I was in medical school.  Now I play solo jazz guitar on a nylon string one night a week in a restaurant.  It encourages and impels me to keep in shape and practice.  I try to read and listen to other musicians as much as I can and keep up my reading music skills.

Carla B.:  Thank you for painting that wonderful picture for me! How did the relationship with Dizzy Gillespie and Englewood Hospital come about?

Dr. Forte: Dizzy was a patient with pancreatic cancer.  His general practitioner asked me to see him and then our relationship began.  Try as much as we could, the surgeons, the oncologists and the radiotherapists, Dizzy was not to be made better.  To be made more comfortable and to be given some support, yes, but not to be cured.  Pancreatic cancer is one of the worst cancers that we deal with.  During that time, we talked a great deal about music and I enjoyed his unique sense of humor as well as his genuine feeling for musicians and friends.  Everybody at Englewood knew Dizzy Gillespie and would say hello to him and he would stop and have a chat with them on the street.  He was that kind of guy, you liked him immediately.  When he was dying, he told the administrators of the hospital that he would be glad to give his name to the hospital to use for whatever they wanted, as long as we helped musicians who did not have life as good as he did.  He said, perhaps, they had a lot of skill and they had a lot of good futures in instruments, but some way or another, not everybody makes it, that’s the way God wants it.  I’ll never forget that and I think that may be because God wants us to help some people that really are not getting to where they ought to be.  So, we got in touch with the Jazz Foundation, which was founded by a number of greats like Jamil Nasser, Billy Taylor, and a businessman who was also a jazz pianist, Herb Storfer.  They were the nuts and bolts of the Jazz Foundation, and I must include Jimmy Owens, who is now a Master of the National Endowment for the Arts.  They were very impressive and very helpful.  They helped us choose the people that we should help and have always helped them and helped us help them as well.  The Jazz Foundation started a few years before the Dizzy Gillespie Fund, but soon I became involved in the Jazz Foundation as well.

 Carla B.: Wow, I am so in awe right now. The Jazz Foundation has done so many great things for musicians in need as well, kudos to them and continued success. What did you do to start the Dizzy Gillespie Fund and keep your promise to take care of indigent jazz musicians?

Dr. Forte: Well, first of all, I had the full cooperation of the hospital in terms of paying for hospitalization, drugs, inpatient studies, outpatient studies, and second of all, I have a team of about 70 wonderful physicians who are also willing to give their time, pro bono, to help this cause.  Without that, I don’t think anybody can succeed in this day and age of medicine.

Carla B.: So Dizzy Gillespie died of pancreatic cancer.  Correct.  Did he have health insurance?

Dr. Forte: Yes he did.  Did I ever worry about how much money his illness was costing or what he needed?  No, I just gave him everything that I thought he needed.

You know the Jazz Foundation does many other things, trying to keep people in their homes, keep their union dues paid, telephones working, and get them some gigs.  When there is a disaster somewhere, we do as much as we can, remembering Katrina, wherein we did a lot.

Carla B.: That’s really wonderful Dr. Forte. What services does this wonderful network of doctors provide?

Dr. Forte: Medical visits, medical treatments, surgeries, direction.  We are a little thin on home care and on outpatient services other than those provided by doctors but we are working on that.

Carla B.: Is there a cost to musicians?

Dr. Forte: Only to say that they need help and to come and get it and to be approved by the Jazz Foundation, and that is because I do not, nor do my colleagues, know all of the people who are truly jazz musicians and I like to make sure that we have a uniform way of accepting patients for care.

 Carla B.: How large is your pro bono network?

Dr. Forte: Well, it is 70-some-odd doctors in Englewood Hospital and that includes many different specialists as well as internists and general practitioners.  Our network extends to Englewood Hospital only, however, and often includes screening programs and educational programs for the patients.
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 Carla B.: How can musicians get funding for their illness?

Dr. Forte: In general, budgeting for health insurance should be included.  They should try to get their union dues paid and try to get enough union-supported gigs so that money will be put aside for their pension plan and their health plan.  That’s a little bit hard for jazz musicians, especially in some of the big cities and especially when we don’t have an organized concert tour or facility that contracts music that respects these things. 

Carla B.: What if they have no insurance?  What if they didn’t have enough quarters for Social Security?

Dr. Forte: Then, we take care of them and that’s in more than just a health and sickness way but through the Jazz Foundation, a lot more of their needs are met as we mentioned above, housing, and food…food, imagine, food…a fellow who’s played music all of his life and has entertained people and made them feel happy has to worry about what he’s going to eat, but these are things that we are trying to do more and more of.  Unfortunately, we have to include drug counseling and alcohol counseling and free legal counseling which occurs from time to time when these fellows get themselves in a jam or when they’re getting thrown out of their apartment illegally.

Carla B.:  Since 2001, this network of amazing doctors has grown to other states where you all have found uninsured musicians who need help.  Is this something that will continue indefinitely?

Dr. Forte: I hope we’re going to be able to continue.  The costs are high and the funding is getting thin.  My advice to other physicians who want to do this is to be dedicated to it, spend the time that it takes, and convince your hospitals to help you.  Otherwise, you will have a very hard time making any headway meeting the non-physician costs that are encountered with the patient’s care.

You know that in certain instances such as the Katrina disaster, we have been there.  We spent a fair amount of money and time helping these people relocate, get jobs elsewhere, get involved in the jazz in the school program to make some money and also to replace music, instruments and things that were lost during the flood that were necessary for their survival.

Vegas TicketsCarla B.:  Is the Jazz Foundation of New York connected to the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial?

Dr. Forte: More correctly, the Jazz Foundation of America, which is based in New York and started in Herb Storfer’s apartment with one little desk for the executive to work with, now has an office in the Union Hall on 48th Street.  The Jazz Foundation of America is connected to the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial in the ways that I’ve mentioned before.  Some of the fundraising that goes on at the Jazz Foundation of America is for the Dizzy Gillespie Fund at Englewood Hospital.

Carla B.:  How can donors help support the work of the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Fund?

Dr. Forte: If they send money or a check to the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Fund at Englewood Hospital, c/o The Development Office, 350 Engle Street, Englewood, NJ  07631, we will use it to the best of our ability and 100% in efforts for the patients.  If you have questions, you can always reach me at the same address or our Development office.

Carla B.:  There are now thousands of musicians that can have a fulfilled life and are singing and dancing because of the Dizzy Gillespie fund and you, Dr. Forte, and your wonderful network of physicians.  How does this make you feel?

Dr. Forte: It makes me feel very good.  It makes me feel like I’m doing something for people that have done something for me, that have helped shape my life.  They’ve played music that has bolstered me up at times when I would much rather have sat in the corner and cried. They inspired me to continue to play my guitar.  By the way, when I play my gigs, any money that I get, whether it’s passing the hat or actually from the club owner, all the money goes to the Dizzy Gillespie Fund because I am not a professional musician and I know who needs the money more than I do, so how does it make me feel and how does it make all of my compatriots who are helping in this?  We feel real good.  You should see the excitement that the doctors have when they have one of these patients.

This changed my life a lot.  I had to learn a lot of things.  I had to learn about musician-related injury and problems with lack of sleep, lack of good food, being on the road, and depression, because a lot of artists who don’t feel that they are up to where they belong are depressed or, at least, sad.  I also had to learn how to get help for people in specialties other than my own when I’m over my head, and that’s more often than I wish it were, but it is a fact so I do that and I think the specialists appreciate that and enjoy helping us out.

Carla B.: I commend you and your colleagues, you all are doing such a great service for these musicians and you are such an inspiration. Thanks so much for taking the time to speak with me, it’s truly been an honor. One last question, will you be performing at the Dizzy Gillespie Memorial Benefit on October 16?

Dr. Forte: Yes,  two songs.

Carla B.: I am definitely looking forward to seeing your performance. Thanks again Doctor Forte.

Dr. Forte: Thank you very much.

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How will “Chris Lighty” one of the most powerful figures in the hip hop business be remembered in Pop Culture..?

 

“Be very serious, be focused. You got nothing to lose in this game by being consistent, and not just thinking you are going to get in and make 100 million dollars, cause that’s not going to happen. Make a career; I rather sell 10 million records over ten years than 10 million records once, it’s a business,” Chris Lighty.

 

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For many Chris Lighty will be remembered as one of the most powerful figures in the hip hop business. A fundamental key player in transforming the  rap game from being grimey to appealing to mainstream media, ushering in the era of white collared hip hop moguls.

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Brokering some of the biggest deals in hip hop music with entities like Sprite and Coca Cola. The brain behind 50 cents’ energy drink which netted the rapper more than $400 million dollars and negotiating LL Cool J’s Gap endorsement back in 1999, which was one of the most genius case studies in hip hop to date. It was also momentous due to the fact that LL Cool J was the first rapper to ever be called on to endorse a mainstream apparel company.

LL Cool J:

“Jeans popping in every mall in town and city. G-A-P gritty, ready to go, for us, by us, on the low,” he rapped.

And that right there ya’ll was something sales and marketing experts like to call, ‘guerilla marketing 101.’  With the help of Chris Lighty, the hip hop icon was able to incorporate a little somethin somethin for his financial interests, on the sly…promoting all things, ‘FUBU.’

To be given the opportunity to endorse a company as big as Gap and then successfully add a smaller apparel name to the final product was straight, ‘gangsta.’ As you can see from the video above, LL Cool J also rocked a FUBU hat during his commercial spot.

Lighty also claimed to have been instrumental in hooking up Gee and his client Drake with a Sprite endorsement, saying, “Here’s a quick $850,000, let’s get busy baby.”

Chris Lighty’s focal point was to build rappers and their brands without sacrificing their connections to their hood.

During his career in the industry he founded Violator, a record label, management, and marketing company which represented Nas, 50 cent, Ja Rule, Mobb Deep, Missy Elliott, LL Cool J, Sean “Diddy” Combs and Mariah Carey to name a few.

The New York Times called him “one of the most powerful figures in the hip-hop business.”

According to Forbes, Lighty merged Violator with Primary Wave Talent Management to form Primary Violator Management last year, in a move that could have potentially brought even bigger deals.

The 44-year-old reportedly owed the IRS $5 million in taxes.

Despite the entrepreneur taking his own life, his portfolio is very impressive and his work speaks for itself. He leaves a legacy for his family, friends, fans and entrepreneurs alike. So as we ponder over his reasons of why he did what he did…let’s stop. Focus on what he left behind for the seasoned professionals as well as the up and coming entertainers/entrepreneurs that find themselves immersed in the music industry, an industry that many have sacrificed so much to be in. An industry that is built for the strong, not the weak or the naysayers.

Lighty had immeasurable impact on the music industry and has left a clear path to success for those that choose it. His platform makes it possible for a generation of entertainers to learn and flourish.

In a 2010 interview Lighty shared his thoughts on what it takes to make it in the music business and leaves us with an uncanny quote on the industry and his life….watch the video below.

“Be very serious, be focused. You got nothing to lose in this game by being consistent, and not just thinking you are going to get in and make 100 million dollars, cause that’s not going to happen. Make a career; I rather sell 10 million records over ten years than 10 million records once, it’s a business. Everybody fronting like the money is nonstop, it’s nonstop until it stops. I’ve seen a lot of people come and go in the game so, I plan to be here until I decide I don’t wanna be here know more,” Lighty said.

Gandhi famously said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” I don’t doubt that, in recent years, Lighty did just that. Lighty made the rap game more beautiful and his family, friends, fans, colleagues, clients loved him for it. Lighty made the rap game more ideal, and the billions of us with no voice will be forever impacted.

 

EOTM! Online extends our condolences to the Lighty family, Violator Entertainment and all of Chris’ friends and associates. Leave your comments below.

 

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Malia Obama showing up in public comments of campaign ads

Published by EOTM News Editor on July 2nd, 2012 - in Breaking News, Carla B - Column, Politics, World News
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President Barack Obama is doing all he can to protect the private lives of his daughters, Sasha,11 and Malia,13. Despite these efforts the two tweens are increasingly appearing in campaign ads. Why the recent spike you ask…? Well it all stems from when Obama used the girls to personalize his image and his thinking on a range of public policy issues, from explaining why he placed a phone call to a college student assailed by radio talker Rush Limbaugh to his decision to support gay marriage.

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“It wouldn’t dawn on them that somehow their friends’ parents would be treated differently,” Obama said of his daughters as he explained his switch to supporting same-sex marriage. “It doesn’t make sense to them and, frankly, that’s the kind of thing that prompts a change in perspective.”

Obama is not the first politician to “showcase” his family in an effort to represent ‘family values.’ Mitt Romney did the same when he highlighted the pedigree of his five sons recently.

According to the director of Democratic leaning Public Polling Tom Jensen said,“They’re the most popular unit of the family, who doesn’t like the girls?”

His firm surveyed the girls’ popularity in 2009 and found them with numbers politicos would covet: a 54 percent favorability rating and an unfavorable standing of just 5 percent, numbers that he thinks are unlikely to have moved much.

Jensen notes that family is a big factor for President Obama, whom polls show people like even if they’re not crazy about his stewardship of the economy.

“Children have a kind of humanizing impact, and that’s really what Obama needs,” Jensen said. “Voters feel like things haven’t changed as much as they wanted. The economy still is not where they wanted it to be. He needs people to vote more on whether they like him or not, regardless of his record of accomplishment.”

A Gallup poll this week found Obama with a wide lead over Romney when it comes to personal likability.

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“With that small swath of swing voters that everyone wants, if something gets people to think about Obama the man, as opposed to Obama the guardian of the economy, he’s in better shape,” Jensen said.

Despite the reasoning several media outlets have pulled or edited already-published articles about the activities of President Barack Obama’s daughters, even though the stories appeared to pose no active security risk to the first family.

An example, on Thursday, 14-year-old Malia Obama attended a concert by the British boy band One Direction at the Patriot Center in Fairfax, Va., flanked by Secret Service agents who attempted unsuccessfully to blend in with the crowd of mostly pre-teen girls.

At one point during the concert, the boy bands’ teen heartthrobs sang, “You’re insecure, Dunno what for, You’re turning heads when you walk through the door” — words that managed to take on some meaning for Malia, who looked less than enthused by the presence of multiple middle-aged federal agents at her side.

On Friday, the story was picked up by The Huffington Post, which ran the headline, “Malia Obama, One Direction Fan: First Daughter Attends Boy Band Concert with Secret Service in Tow.”

Within hours, the entire post was scrubbed from the site without explanation, and the post’s URL was hastily changed to direct users to the site’s celebrity section.

The next day, news aggregation website Buzzfeed ran a story on the event, accompanied by a picture of Malia in attendance at the concert. The headline was “Malia Obama Goes to the One Direction Concert with the Secret Service,” and the story’s picture showed Malia standing awkwardly in front of a scowling male Secret Service agent, with what appear to be two additional female Secret Service agents standing to her right.

By Sunday, the headline had changed to “Secret Service Agent Does Not Appear To Enjoy One Direction Concert,” and Buzzfeed had cropped the photo to remove Malia entirely, leaving only a narrow shot of the unhappy Secret Service agent. Again, the author of the post, Hillary Reinsberg, left no explanation for scrubbing Malia from the story and the picture, nor did she provide any indication to readers that it had occurred.

Interesting…EOTM! Online has yet to get such a request…guess ‘new media‘ is no threat.

The Washington Post contributed to this report.
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Happy Birthday to EOTM Radio and Media Founder Carla B.

By: Tawanda Cawthon – follow on Twitter @eotmintern2 and Facebook @EOTM Radio & Media

EPR- May 20, 2012Carla B., born Carla Simpson in Chicago, Illinois on May 20.1972, is an African American  entrepreneur, radio and television personality and business executive. Barnes founded the new media company EOTM Radio and later expanded into EOTM Media Group, the company has been privately held since February 2007.

After launching and successfully running EOTM Properties in Atlanta the then Barnes launched EOTM Radio & Media, positioned and branded each show under the network to traditional radio.

EOTM Networks has went on to launch over 30 independent radio programs, producing over 1500 shows, many of which are syndicated, in three major markets in the U.S., the new media company also encompasses  TV,  Entertainment and Public Relations.

You can connect with Ms. B on Twitter @eotmpr and Facebook @NeedaPublicist

Happy Birthday Ms. B!

 

 

 

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“Submissive” doesn’t mean subservient says Michele Bachmann

Published by EOTM News Editor on August 14th, 2011 - in Breaking News, Carla B - Column, Politics

By: Carla B.

I really want to poke holes in this story, actually in all things Michele Bachmann but I promised I wouldn’t give politicians a hard time today. So, I will digress and stick to the facts at hand.<smiley face here>

Rep. Michele Bachmann defended her comment on why wives should be submissive on Face the Nation today. Bachmann points out that when she said wives should be submissive to their husbands, she meant that married couples should have mutual respect.

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Bachmann explains:

In 2006, Bachmann said her husband had told her to get a post-doctorate degree in tax law. “Tax law? I hate taxes,” she continued. “Why should I go into something like that? But the lord says, be submissive. Wives, you are to be submissive to your husbands.’”

“I respect my husband, he respects me,” she said. “We have been married 33 years, we have a great marriage…and respecting each other, listening to each other is what that means.”

When asked if she thought submissive means subservient?

“Not to us, to us it means respect. We respect each other, we listen to each other, we love each other and that is what it means.”

Way to go Michele! <snap snap, you gooo girl>

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Shopping for Shoes and Paying it Forward

Published by EOTM News Editor on August 1st, 2011 - in Carla B - Column, Motivation Corner

By: Carla B.

From a shoe lover’s point of view this is a very cool Pay It Forward tale that embraces fashion and career advice for a newly minted manager.  I was focused on the task at hand (that would be shoe shopping) when a young woman approached me.

“Excuse me, but would you mind giving me your opinion of these shoes?”  She raised her pant leg to mid-calf.  The shoes on her feet looked “sturdy” and the ones she was holding in her hands were well-worn Nikes.  She looked like she would be more comfortable on the beach playing volleyball with her long lanky legs and free flowing blonde hair.

Clearly this was a woman transitioning from college to career and she was not happy about the change it would mean for her feet.  She went on to explain she accepted an entry-level management job and needed to select two pair of shoes for her new career.

I spent the next ten minutes or so helping her select career appropriate shoes.  We laughed about how even the most comfortable cannot compare with her Nikes.  Her parting words were, “Thank you so much for your help.  My mother lives in another country and I’m on my own here in the USA.”  She glanced down at the new pumps on her feet,  “I can’t say they are comfortable but at least I’ll feel confident in them.”

Yes, we women sometimes trade comfort for confidence, and a fabulous pair of shoes is a wonderful way to kick-start your confidence on day one at a new job, a big audition or even meeting a potential client!

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Maltreatment of Disabled Children within Fulton County Schools

Published by EOTM News Editor on July 27th, 2011 - in Breaking News, Carla B - Column, Health, Politics, World News

Everyone within the school system is mandated to play a part in protecting our children. Creating a safe learning environment, identifying pupils who are suffering or at risk of harm and then taking appropriate action to insure children are safe at home and at school. These should be some of the actions taken by elected and voluntary members of the school administrations. I realize many of you may say, it is; but in all actuality, it isn’t.

I’m neither a child protection specialist nor a trained social worker. I am; however, a mother, daughter, friend, activist and business owner who has stumbled across the scandalous disregard of two Fulton county schools that failed to protect a disabled child.

I am not saying there is no one within the Fulton county school district that has empathy. There are people who care passionately about the rights of disabled children. Most professionals who choose to work with disabled children do their best to protect them from harm; but they’re up against the system, and the system just isn’t geared up to meet the needs of disabled youth.

The most recent major research project in the United States by Patricia Sullivan and John Knutson, found that disabled children were over three times more likely to be abused or neglected than able-bodied children. Three times. This should be ringing alarm bells right through the Departments of Health and Education, but it isn’t.

In regards to the safeguarding of our children, neither the US Education Department nor the US Department of Health and Human Services seldom mention incapacitated youth, these children are rarely more than a footnote in important guidance papers.

Part of the trouble is that we simply don’t have information about the level of maltreatment of disabled children. These statistics are lacking because the Department of Health does not require Child Protection Registers to identify whether children they list have disabilities. If this was done, at least we would know how many children with disabilities are on the register, in what way they were abused and what action was taken. Until this happens, we will not know the scale of the problem.

A report from the Government Accountability Office released an article in 2009 that stated, children with disabilities are being secluded from classmates and restrained against their will to control their behavior — interventions that have led to harm and, in rare cases, deaths. In many cases, the restraints happen even when students aren’t physically aggressive or dangerous.

In one case, a New York school confined a 9-year-old with learning disabilities to a “small, dirty room” 75 times in six months for whistling, slouching and hand-waving. In another, a Florida teacher’s aide gagged and duct-taped five misbehaving children to their desks; and police say a 14-year-old boy died when a special-education teacher in Texas lay on top of the student when he would not stay seated. Police ruled it a homicide, but a grand jury rejected criminal charges.

The findings from the GAO, Congress’ investigative arm, stop short of attaching a hard number to how many children are subjected to the practices, but investigators say they found “hundreds of allegations” of abuse involving restraint or seclusion at schools from 1990 to 2009; in Texas and California, they say, public schools recorded a combined 33,095 instances in the past school year alone.

The report details 10 children’s cases, four of which ended in death. Unlike in hospitals or residential treatment centers, there’s no federal system to regulate such practices in schools — and teachers are often inadequately trained, GAO says.

Only seven states even require that educators get training before they’re allowed to restrict children, and only five states have banned “prone restraint,” which ended in the death of the Texas student.

“A child’s fate should not depend on what state they live in,” says U.S. Rep. George Miller, a California Democrat who requested the report.

It would be nice if that was not the case, however, in the Hatcher family it was. Below is a devastating story that spanned three years, 2 schools, and one school district. It is this story that has pushed me to take a more aggressive approach in bringing more awareness with the hopes of helping all children.

Teacher: Kathy Durden

 

From what we have gathered via video, audio and documented reports, on multiple occasions Kathy Durden and Melanie Pickens, teachers from Hopewell Middle and Roswell High School, in Georgia, allegedly brutalized Aaron Hatcher, to the point of death, according to the family.

To date, there has been no justice for young Aaron Hatcher. The authorities slithered out of its responsibility by claiming there was no crime.

No justice then for Aaron?

What does that say about our judicial system?

What message does it give to abusers?

 

Account from Aaron Hatcher’s father, Ronald Hatcher:

I will start from when this whole ordeal began, from 2004-2007. My wife and I were not aware of any abuse that was going on nor of any prior investigation.

I later discovered  there was an investigation involving some of Aaron’s classmates who were allegedly being abused. The report I received was from one of the abused student’s parent, who found my family shortly after they discovered Aaron had passed away.( March 19, 2011)

Aaron Hatcher

Children were being abused at an alarming rate and it has been documented and recorded.

On behalf of my son Aaron, I am searching for a lawyer to assist my family and bring justice for my son, as of today, I have not found one to represent us.

You must know, when we found out about these allegations we were devastated and speechless. But we were born fighters, raised in some of the toughest cities in the United States; they didn’t want to mess with our family. We would take it to the Supreme Court if we had to. For sure, the system would see this case for what it was. Blatant child abuse.

Eyewitness reports prove

the abuse inflicted on young Aaron.

The school district stood by their decision on how the teachers handled the punishments, “Children like Aaron are physically aggressive and dangerous,” one school counselor said.

Ironically, it appeared more like tactics of terrorism, than a childhood punishment.

We learned of this after his death.

During this trying time in his life, Aaron would come home crying constantly. This eventually led me and his Grandmother to make trips to the school to investigate. Aaron appeared to always be in so much pain, if we touched him he would flinch. There were many occasions when we decided to take him to the emergency room because of discoloration in his skin, at basic fall points, or a bruise, that we later discovered was a broken bone or a leg out of pocket. We were devastated because it seemed there were no answers, no explanations other than his own clumsiness.

We knew things were amidst; this is why we decided to proceed with the investigation.

Our son had not been his young, joyful self for years; it was like his soul was dimming, a little at a time.

We later learned the abuse went back as far as 2001, which also entailed verbal abuse.

Eventually things got considerably worse; we were forced to have his private nurse attend school with him on a daily basis, to be our eyes and ears. She advised that Aaron’s teacher “Kathy Durden,” was now physically abusing him. At this juncture in his young life, Aaron’s health took a decline and due to the abuse his body sustained, it caused his spine to become deformed creating spinal issues that drastically affected his neck movements. One of the bones in his leg had also become dislocated, which our Doctor agreed it could have been caused by multiple falls.

A handful of students were witnesses in this complaint, but through some technicality they were discredited one by one because they were “unreliable,” according to school officials.

Aaron’s nurse also reported to us that Kathy Durden was snatching his neck by force, causing him to have trouble breathing. He had to turn his neck a certain way just so he could breath normally. When the nurse protested this action the teacher said, “his mom should teach him how to turn his head”. Despite our outcry to the principal and other staff nothing was done. The teacher was instructed to let Aaron’s nurse do her job and the teacher would do hers. My son’s nurse was dedicated to helping him in any and every way possible. On our behalf she did report the incidents that were witnessed by her, to only be threatened with the lost of her job if she proceeded. She was eventually fired for sharing patient information with us.

On one occasion I made a surprise visit to the school and found that the teacher had made her own neck restraint for Aaron, which left deep abrasions on his neck. Over the course of time there were new deformities becoming visible, which our doctor noted was caused by the way Aaron was positioned in the chair as well as other documented bruises.

This was outlandish, please note, there was no prior approval from a doctor, myself or my wife to proceed with these types of restraints. We would NOT have allowed it.

Not shortly after, Aaron passed away from a heart attack. We wholeheartedly believe his untimely death was triggered by all the extra stress and unnecessary pain in his young life.

It is without a doubt a parent’s worst nightmare to come to the realization that your “all,” was just not good enough. Nevertheless, we may have not been able to give Aaron justice in life, but he will be rewarded in death.

Our fight has only just begun, we know Aaron was being abused and that other children are also being victimized at the hands of a few bad teachers within the Fulton county schools, within schools all across the country, all around the world.

Voices of the children have been heard, but no one with the power to change things has been listening…not yet..anyway.

Please help us spread the word to stop the maltreatment of disabled children within Fulton county schools and across the world.

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The Hatcher family is currently interviewing legal teams as well as putting together a new foundation in his son’s name, “The Aaron Hatcher Foundation-Stopping the Maltreatment of Disabled Children.” Contact Ronald Hatcher for more information @ (678)754-1539.

Contact Carla B. of EOTM Public Relations to schedule an interview @ (213)290-3573 –

Submit media credentials to attend the press conference in Atlanta Ga by emailing pr@eotmradio.com. Date and location to be disclosed at a later date.

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Update: 8/11/2011

Since the release of our blog there has been major mainstream attention to Rahn Anthoni’s case.We also has since omitted certain parts of the article due to our discretion.

Anthoni appeared on Channel 2 in Atlanta (8-11-2011) to share his story. You can view the interview below.

http://www.wsbtv.com/news/28839148/detail.html

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